When its time to break up and change your love status
We are living in the busiest generation where everything happened to our life is like a Bugatti passes by your side and you got amazed by the speed you got in the moment of perception. You liked it in the first sight, which certainly was not love but rather an infatuation, that got over your mind in the first 16 seconds of your perception. In this speedy-greedy era, you also want to ride it in the first view without knowing/reading it's terms and conditions. Yes, love comes with conditions that should be maintained.Well if you say love is unconditional, but the fact is it works better in theory than in practice. So every relationship provides a sign that should be taken care of. Relationships also need nourishment the same way we do it to our body & soul. But even after that
you are having a hard time sticking up with your partner, you must look for these signs to give yourself the courage to move on.
Maybe you're committed to them, but they are not so committed. Well, this is a point where we should know that every action should have an equal and opposite reaction. This is the nature, where everything is well balanced, starting from the universal gravitational force to the life cycles. the amount of love you give them should be the same you get back in return otherwise, what's the point of being one-sided?
Your happiness should make him happy too. Now the proverb works here the best is that if you're happy I am happy too if you not then I will make you. Well if you are happy about being in your friend's place overnight but your partner doesn't, this is not something you should count here as your happiness, maybe he/she is more concerned about your protection and health. If you don't want that much protectiveness or you're happy in doing what you do, then maybe your partner is not your type. People want to be in a relationship with a happy person who contributes to their happiness too. Contribution from both sides is much needed as in the field and in life too.
You're in a relationship your social feed is full happy smiling pictures of both. But that doesn't mean you're happy in your personal life. everyone comes in the world alone but in a relationship, we feel each other even being in different countries. That is because of your hormone oxytocin, so if your partner can't make your oxytocin level higher. you're in a wrong place buddy. You both are living in the same house still you feel lonely, then take your time to agree that it is needed to be cut off before it becomes more toxic.
The much-needed thing in a relationship is the conversation. if your partner avoids you. it's time to break the conversation gap, otherwise, it's going to make your relationship goes off the pace. A short time pause because of difficulties, grief or stress is okay but sustaining this can be chronic. and it would end up for you both.
It's not like wastewater toxicity, we don't know but we do toxicity by our words too. You must be frustrated by your all day work but throbbing your frustration to your partner can make them feeling down too. Now if you did something like it, apologize, but in case if you're doing this on a daily basis. you need to end up the thing before your partner ends it. Everybody has their own problems if you want to solve it. sit down, relax and tell them your problems it will ease you more than that of screaming over.
Everything in the relationship goes with the consent of both. Now if anyone wants to dominate other than sincerely it definitely not going to work for you. There are people who want to live two lives in one place. so if you get anyone to like them, get rid off them as soon as possible.
If you get to a place in your relationship where you are both keeping score about who is doing what, then you're not doing it with an open heart, you want to place yourself higher in the contest. But love is not a competition my friend. Love with an open heart not with a scorecard.
Well, I surely did throw the pun in the last one, but before going apart, let me give you a piece of advice my friend..
And don't you dare forget,
LOVE IS NOT A GAME, NEITHER IT IS A COMPETITION
LOVE IS AN ETERNAL PROMISE BETWEEN TWO SOULS
SHARING ONE HEART...